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We negotiate all the time: with colleagues, bosses,
clients, spouses and other members of tour family. Our negotiating
skills are often the key to winning a major contract, getting a
promotion, motivating a team. This seminar will give you the opportunity
to get acquainted with the principles of win-win negotiations and
test them with hands-on exercises and case studies. It will also
show the importance of understanding the subtle relationship existing
between the parties in a negotiation and teach how to recognise
different personality types and their psychological needs.
Attendees will practise using language, voice and body language
to build powerful rapport to influence and convince with integrity.
Finally, they will be guided through the different steps of planning,
preparing and conducting successful negotiations.
Anyone who is involved in negotiations at any level and wishes to acquire the skills needed to reach lasting, mutually satisfying agreements.
Pedagogical Approach
This course is practical and immediately useful. Theory and models are reinforced by tools and techniques issued from NLP, Process Communication, Transactional Analysis and Cognitive Sciences to maximize their impact in relationship building, conflict prevention and the management and negotiation of lasting, mutually beneficial agreements.
Duration : Tree days+ two one hour individual coaching session
Criteria to judge any method of negotiation
Negotiator's personal skills end talents
Bargaining over positions
Positional bargaining create its own resistance
Softball vs. Hardball (soft game vs. hard game)
Are You a Soft or Hard Negotiator?
Negotiating on the Merits:
Focus on People
Separate the People from the Problem
Negotiators are people first
Separate the relationship from the substance: deal directly with the people
problems
Focus on interests
Interests, not positions
Finding shared and compatible interests
How to identify interests?
Hard on the problem, soft on the people
Options
Invent Options for Mutual Gain
The assumption of a fixed pie
Thinking that solving their problem is "their problem"
Brainstorming
Broaden your options
Multiply your options: the Circle Chart
Invent agreements of different strengths
Change the scope of a proposed agreement
Look for mutual gain
Identify Shared Interests
Make their decision easy
Whose shoes?
What decision?
Making threats is not enough
Criteria
Using objective Criteria
Fair standards
Fair procedures
Negotiating with objective criteria
Never yield to pressure (only to principle)

The 3 parts of a Negotiation
1 Preparation
Interests
Options
Standards
Alternatives (BATNA)
Proposal
2 Building Partnership/ Cooperation
Establish fair criteria
Build a solid working relationship
Understand and counter tactics
Turn Confrontation into Cooperation
Acknowledge the differences with optimism
Ask problem solving questions
Reframing
Don't escalate use power to educate
3 Reach for Compromise
When not to negotiate.
Deadlock
Linking Concessions.
Interpreting Signals
Settling the Deal
'Games People Play'.
Types of Conflict.
Limiting and Facilitationg Beliefs.
Conclusion
Questions and answers